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  2. Book search result icon Dana: Giving | Merit: The Buddha's Strategies for Happiness
     … That’s the way it is. The donor does not go without reward.” “Magnificent, Master Gotama! Magnificent! Just as if he were to place upright what was overturned, to reveal what was hidden, to show the way to one who was lost, or to carry a lamp into the dark so that those with eyes could see forms, in the same way has Master … 
  3. Book search result icon Q&A | Facing Aging, Illness, & Death
     … That would be a lie, and the way around that situation would be to figure out some way to not give information about the fugitive to the police without, at the same time, lying. This sort of thing is going to be a challenge for each of us as we practice the precepts. My experience has been that the ways of not giving information … 
  4. Slowing Down to Look
     … We’re caught in the middle. Remember what we were saying last night about people who have an intuitive response to a situation, sometimes very quick, and often the situation requires a quick response. Something comes up in your life and you can’t say, “noting, noting, noting.” You’ve got to do something right away. The question is: How do you know when … 
  5. Book search result icon Giving Care | Facing Aging, Illness, & Death
     … extremes as to how people interpret the best way to express goodwill for a patient. One extreme is the idea that you have to extend life as long as possible. The other extreme is terminating life when the quality of life goes down. The Buddha’s instructions avoid these two extremes and follow a middle course whose outside parameters are provided by the precepts … 
  6. Book search result icon Getting the Message | Purity of Heart
     … The Buddha was able to communicate the message to kings that they shouldn’t kill, but because kings in general were not the most promising students of the Dhamma, he had to bring them to this message in an indirect way. It’s true that in the Pali Canon silence is sometimes interpreted as acquiescence, but this principle holds only in response to a … 
  7. Book search result icon Chapter One | The Shape of Suffering
     … right view, right resolve, right speech, right action, right livelihood, right effort, right mindfulness, right concentration. “And when a disciple of the noble ones discerns the requisite condition in this way, discerns the origination of the requisite condition in this way, discerns the cessation of the requisite condition in this way, discerns the way of practice leading to the cessation of the condition in … 
  8. Book search result icon Advice | Beyond Coping: A Study Guide on Aging, Illness, Death, & Separation
     … Where & however an aim is accomplished through eulogies, chants, good sayings, donations, & family customs, follow them diligently there & that way. But if you discern that your own aim or that of others is not gained in this way, acquiesce [to the nature of things] unsorrowing, with the thought: ‘What important work am I doing now?’ —AN 5:49 §89. [Sister Ubbiri:] “‘Jiva, my daughter … 
  9. Book search result icon C. The Four Right Exertions | The Wings to Awakening
     … The polar extremes of constant exertion to the point of exhaustion and its opposite, a knee-jerk fear of “efforting,” are both misguided here, as is the seemingly “middleway of moderation in all things. The true middle way means tuning one’s efforts to one’s abilities and to the task at hand [§86]. In some cases, this entails an all-out effort … 
  10. Book search result icon Territories | The Buddhist Monastic Code, Volumes I & II
     … There would be no way of knowing precisely where it was or what the markers were, so there would be no way of revoking it when authorizing a new territory in its place. If, as the Commentary says, a territory remains such until the disappearance of the Buddha’s teachings and any territory authorized so as to overlap it would be invalid—there being … 
  11. Book search result icon The Buddha’s Teachings
     … The path to the cessation of suffering is also called the Middle Way because it avoids two extremes: (1) indulgence in the pleasures of sensuality and (2) devotion to the pain of self-torment. Yet this does not mean that the path pursues a course of middling pleasures and middling pains. Instead, it treats the pleasure of concentration, along with insight into the pain … 
  12. Book search result icon III. The Foul: Tranquility Meditation | Basic Themes
     … desire for things to be this way or that at times when they can’t be the way we want them; wanting things to be a certain way outside of the proper time or occasion. This is called ‘being hungry’ – like a person who hungers for food but has no food to eat and so acts in a way that shows, ‘I’m a … 
  13. Book search result icon Mindfulness of Death (2) | Facing Aging, Illness, & Death
     … But if you realize that they are actually getting in the way of your own progress, that’s half the battle right there. The Buddha mentions four of these five hindrances explicitly in his discussion of what to guard against at the moment of death. The one he doesn’t mention explicitly, sloth and drowsiness, is implicit. To be drowsy gets in the way … 
  14. Book search result icon All-around Discernment | The Skill of Release
     … Once you know the labels formulated by the Buddha, you can decipher yourself, in the same way that you learn how to read a book. Take a baby who doesn’t know anything: As soon as it’s born, it cries, “Wae!” That’s feeling. If it’s eating and comes across something it doesn’t like, it throws it away and goes for … 
  15. Book search result icon Devadatta | Noble Warrior : A Life of the Buddha
     … I, having killed the Blessed One, will become Buddha.” Then Prince Ajātasattu, (thinking,) “Master Devadatta is mighty & powerful; Master Devadatta should know,” strapping a dagger to his thigh—afraid, apprehensive, alarmed, & trembling—rushed into the inner palace in the middle of the day. The ministers guarding the inner palace saw him—afraid, apprehensive, alarmed, & trembling—rushing into the inner palace in the middle of … 
  16. Book search result icon Head & Heart Together | Head & Heart Together
     … When you think in these ways you see that it really is in your interest to develop the brahmavihāras in all situations. So the question is, how do you do that? This is where another aspect of the Buddha’s teachings on causality plays a role: his teaching on fabrication, or the way you shape your experience. Fabrication is of three kinds: bodily, verbal … 
  17. The Sport of Wise People | Meditations8 : Dhamma Talks
     … of light inside the body, extending down from the middle of the head, down through the spine. As you breathe in, think of the breath coming in from all directions into that pole of light, and as you breathe out think of it going out in all directions from that pole of light. This way, you’re not staying with just one spot. You … 
  18. Book search result icon Sekhiya | The Buddhist Monastic Code, Volumes I & II
     … The Vinaya-mukha, in discussing this rule, makes the following point: “In terms of present-day customs, receiving a lot of food in a way that demonstrates greed is unacceptable. There is nothing wrong, however, in receiving a lot in a way that demonstrates compassion. For instance, when a newly-ordained bhikkhu goes to receive alms at his family home, if he accepts only … 
  19. Book search result icon Q&A | Facing Aging, Illness, & Death
     … motor, but sometimes you’re out in the middle of a forest and you don’t have any parts, so you use wire and paper clips in order to get back home. In other words, deal with the problems that come up and are pressing, but otherwise put them aside. It’s in this way that your discernment begins to develop. But when you … 
  20. Book search result icon 5. Motivation for the Brahmavihāras | The Sublime Attitudes: A Study Guide on the Brahmavihāras
     … How can I inflict on others what is displeasing & disagreeable to me?’ Reflecting in this way, he refrains from taking life, gets others to refrain from taking life, and speaks in praise of refraining from taking life. In this way his bodily behavior is pure in three ways. “And further, he reflects thus: ‘If someone, by way of theft, were to take from me … 
  21. Sutta search result icon MN 41  Sāleyyaka Sutta | (Brahmans) of Sāla
     … A more skillful way to regard past misdeeds would be to recognize that they were wrong, to resolve not to repeat them, and to develop attitudes of immeasurable goodwill, compassion, empathetic joy, and equanimity to reinforce one’s resolve not to treat anyone in an unskillful way. AN 3:101 adds that the results of past misdeeds can be mitigated both through the practice … 
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