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  2. Shoulds & Desires | Meditations 12
     … Simply by the way you think, you can create a good energy. You can create something that’s a gift to others. And of course, you benefit. If you have goodwill for all beings, you’re very unlikely to do unskillful things. You’re very unlikely to harm them. In that way, you protect yourself. So this is a basic pattern of the path … 
  3. Delusion Concentration | Gather ’Round the Breath
     … So the middle course here is to stick with the breath. Remember that the pleasure is created by the flow of the breath, the stillness of the mind, working together. Both of these conditions depend on the focus of your mind on the breath, alert and mindful. You don’t want to drop your alertness; you don’t want to drop your mindfulness, because … 
  4. Basic Breath, Basic Insight
     … As for the particular ways we do that—as Tolstoy once said, “Happy families are all alike. Unhappy families are all unhappy in their own way.” We all create suffering for ourselves in different ways based on different assumptions, different ideas of what happiness would be and how we can go about finding it. Meditation gives you a good opportunity to look at exactly … 
  5. Count Yourself Lucky
     … If you learn to look at these things in the right way, you can work with them in a productive way. So regardless of what raw material your past karma keeps popping up in the present moment, as long as you’re not in the hell of totally unpleasant sights, sounds, smells, tastes, tactile sensations, ideas, and as long as you’re not in … 
  6. A Tale of Two Kings
     … No one can tell anyone else what’s the right way or wrong way to think about and react to the impermanence of things. But the Buddha points out that it is possible through our actions to put an end to suffering. That changes the equation. It’s no longer a matter of personal preference. The question is: Here this opportunity is there. Are … 
  7. Finding Balance
     … Death can come at any time, zapping you right in the middle of a nice sleepy meditation. Would you be prepared to go? No, especially not if you’re sleepy. So try to put in some more energy, try to find some way of stirring your energy up, so that if you were suddenly called upon to die right now, you’d be prepared … 
  8. Book search result icon Method 2 | Keeping the Breath in Mind & Lessons in Samādhi
     … Let the breath at the base of the throat spread down the central nerve at the front of the body, past the lungs and liver, all the way down to the bladder and colon. Inhale the breath right at the middle of the chest and let it go all the way down to your intestines. Let all these breath sensations spread so that they … 
  9. A Taste of Freedom
     … The ways of the world don’t offer any way out, but this path of developing the mind does offer a way out. As the Buddha said, it’s good in the beginning, good in the middle. It’s even better in the end. So look at each opportunity to meditate as just that—an opportunity, and not a task, not a chore. A … 
  10. Your Gyroscope | Meditations6
     … This is why reflecting on the eight ways of the world is a helpful practice. What does the world have to offer? Just those eight things: material gain, material loss, status, loss of status, praise, criticism, pleasure, pain. That’s it. And what is there of any lasting value in any of these things? The only value is if you find a way to … 
  11. The Alternative of Concentration
     … That way, instead of fighting back-and-forth between indulgence in pleasure and then self-affliction, you’ve got this other place to go which is much better than either one. This is the Middle Way. Having this sense of well-being that can come simply from being centered changes the equation, changes the balance of power in the mind. You get less tied … 
  12. The Perception of Inconstancy
     … The question is, how do you relate to the body in such a way, how do you relate to the breath in such a way, that you can actually bring this out? You have to look at the way you breathe. The problem is that you’re used to your way of breathing, and it’s hard to think, “Maybe there might be other … 
  13. Settling In
     … Watch that for a while until everything feels easy and open there, and then move up to the solar plexus, the chest, the base of the throat, middle of the head, and then move down the spine, past the hips, down the legs to the tips of the toes. Then start again at the back of the neck and this time, go down the … 
  14. Book search result icon Mindfulness of Breathing: Feelings | Facing Aging, Illness, & Death
     … the nose, the middle of the head, the base of the throat, the tip of the breastbone, above the navel—but there are other possible spots as well. Focus attention on wherever the breath seems to originate, and think of breath energy radiating effortlessly from that spot. If there are any feelings of tension that seem to get in the way of that radiating … 
  15. Not-self in Context
     … Then the Buddha says, there is this middle way that is noble and does lead to awakening. So the Buddha set the five brethren onto the noble path before saying anything about not-self at all. First, he got them to develop their actions. As we know from other suttas, the eightfold path is a path of action that leads to the end of … 
  16. All-around Alertness
     … Messages get sent up through the bureaucracy and some of them get blocked, say, at middle-level management. Others make their way all the way through to the president of the corporation. But when they get blocked half-way up, you have to wonder: “Is there a good reason for blocking them, or is there a bad reason for blocking them?” If you’re … 
  17. Sutta search result icon SN 55:7 Veḷudvāreyya Sutta | The People of Bamboo Gate
     … How can I inflict on others what is displeasing & disagreeable to me?’ Reflecting in this way, he himself refrains from taking life, he gets others to refrain from taking life, and he speaks in praise of refraining from taking life. In this way, his bodily behavior is pure in three ways.1 “Further, he reflects thus: ‘If someone, by way of theft, were to … 
  18. Generating Desire
     … They say, “Do a moderate amount of practice”—which is the middle way of the defilements. They say, “Well, do it a little bit but don’t take it too seriously.” So the practice is always going to be countercultural. This is why, as Ajaan Mun said, you have to replace the culture you were raised in with the culture of the noble ones … 
  19. Caring Enough to Doubt
    There are two ways you can have doubts about the practice or doubts about your own ability to do the practice. One is from caring a lot, and the other is from not caring at all. The second kind is not encouraged, of course. You say, “Well, I doubt that anyone could overcome sensuality or I doubt that I could overcome my anger or … 
  20. The Skill of Happiness
     … tip of the nose, the base of the throat, the middle of the chest, just above the navel—anyplace where you can clearly notice now the breath is coming in, now it’s going out. You breathe with a sense of refreshment. We’re trying to master this skill because it opens the way to other skills as well. As the Buddha says, you … 
  21. Mindfulness of Death & the Deathless
     … So that if, in the middle of a task, you suddenly realize you can’t stay in your body any longer, you can drop the work outside, focus on the work inside, and prepare yourself to go. To go well. That’s the whole purpose of this. Because the way the Buddha teaches mindfulness of death, it makes sense only in the context of … 
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